
I really hope you can help me! I am getting married in less then 3 months, and I have not been able to find a pair of shoes for ‘the’ day.
I’m about 5’2”, and have found a wonderful dress that fits my frame. It’s a floor-length, off-white silk chiffon gown, with tonal satin stripes. It’s strapless and very airy and light looking (if that makes any sense). I was hoping to find shoes that would fit the style, but that also have a platform (a la Christian Louboutin), with a fairly high heel. I would love to find something for under $300 (otherwise I would go with Christian!).
Can’t wait to hear what you might find for me - I’m getting close to the cut-off date and getting nervous about not finding anything.
Thank you!
Julia P., San Francisco, CA
Dear Julia,
First of all, congratulations! Having gotten married myself last year, I completely feel your sole searching pain. Finding the right pair of wedding shoes is ridiculously difficult; unless you’re able to completely throw caution to the wind and eeny meeny miney mo it, even the most reasonable of brides can find herself obsessing over the most frivolous of details. Your eyes start to glaze over, all of the shoes start looking the same, yet none of them are what you’re looking for, and then you start questioning what you’re looking for in the first place. Don’t start thinking about the fact that your floor-length dress will more or less obscure your shoes no matter what, unless you want to spend the next week or so picking up pieces of your brain off the floor.
Imposing practicality on your selection helps the decision making process. I am personally biased towards non-bridal bridal shoes (no dye-to-match or cheesy rhinestones here, please), and neutral metallics. Matching your shoes exactly to your dress is sort of a hopeless and pointless endeavor, as is buying a pair of shoes that are so specific to your dress that any future use is ruled out. A neutral metallic – such as soft gold, antique silver, platino, etc – matches just about anything and is appropriate year round.
Given that you want to wear a high heel, I think your preference towards some sort of platform is a wise one, even if only for comfort’s sake. Since your wedding is in spring/summer, your dress is strapless, and by the sound of it, fairly ethereal looking, I think a dressy sandal would be your best bet.
I’ve found a number of shoes with good wedding potential, listed below and divided into various categories. The great news is that a lot of styles are on sale right now (yay, recession?). My personal favorites are the Claudio Merazzi dress sandals, the Badgley Mischka Marsilia peep toes, and the Pura Lopez Lana sandals, but ultimately you know best in terms of your own personal preferences, appropriateness with regards to your dress, and the general look and feel of your wedding.
A couple last pieces of advice that, like many sage bits of wisdom, originated from Martha Stewart. Make sure to wear your shoes of choice around the house to break them in at least several times prior to your wedding. If the bottoms are somewhat slick, take a piece of sandpaper to them to scuff them up a bit. Your feet will undoubtedly be hurting at least a little at the end no matter what you pick, so it’s good to do a little damage control beforehand.

Platforms

Stuart Weitzman’s Glo Hot Bird Platforms, $201 (originally $335).

Hale Bob’s Billie Heels, $109 (originally $136).

Betsey Johnson’s Deandra Heels, $225.
Demure Peep Toe Pumps

Stuart Weitzman’s Turban Pumps, $159.99 (originally $298).

Badgley Mischka’s Marsilia Peep Toe Pumps, $235 (originally $539.95).

Theory’s Mariel Pumps, $275.
Slingbacks

Delman’s Siana Sandals, $201.20 (originally $394.95).

Jinny Kim’s Cupid Pump, $216.
Straps Galore

Pour La Victoire’s Bethanie Sandal, $279.95 .

Michael Kors’ Wink Heels, $229.

D&G’s Gold Sandals, $245.63, (originally $399).
Channel the Inner Greek Goddess

Pura Lopez’s Lana Sandals, $179.85 (originally $359.70).

Pour La Victoire’s Ellie Sandals, $126 (originally $210).
The Rock N’ Roll Options

Strutt Couture’s Madelaine Pump, $338.41 (originally $594.95).

Claudio Merazzi’s Dress Sandal, $285 (originally $629.95).
Girlie Details

Linea Paolo’s Rachael Sandals, $139.95.

Sergio Rossi’s Bow Pumps, $273 (originally $539).
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